I don’t know what the word husband means.
But I do know what is being human and feeling emotions which count in a marriage.
- Carrying Work Vibes Home.
If you get paid for your work at home attitude, then these habits are effective. Else it s a major no no. Would you eat in a public toilet? I am sure the answer is no.
Then why bring work stuff home. Then it s not termed as a home. It s a branch of work. Workaholic husbands need to note this down for working out a healthy marriage not a homely career. Keep work stuff at bay.
And pay attention to us, wives. Better still think of wives as work and concentrate deeply.
Or would the husbands accept salary from wives to be as attentive as work place. Either way is fine.
Dear Husband, Leave work from where ever you are, when you come back to our home.
2. Mobile on the Go.
This little gadget plays havoc in the lives of both husband and wife. The couple are more involved into this gadget and social apps than actually trying to spend time with each other and grow as mature individuals.
Try switching off this conversation cutter for almost 2, 3 hours and work the magic. Complaints come down. Arguments may rise. Desires and tantrums are let out.
Even laughing takes place. Still everything about a conversation is in the making and creates bondage.
Better than fevicol. Keep a separate phone time set for both of you.
Dear Husband, Please do put down your work phone or personal phone when I talk to you. Respect Humans not Gadgets.
3. Snubbing/Insulting Over Real Affection/Concern.
When we wives really care, we show it, we express, we want answers and reality doesn’t seem to care.
When there is real affection it converts into care for the other.
Why bother? Why insult? Why snub? Why get angry over small things? Tell us Softly and we will understand. Loud voices are not the order of the day.
Insults and snubbing should be done to walls.
Not us. Wives are to be respected as your bosses demand sincerity.
Dear Husband, time to wake up to your partner for life. This type of attitude won’t land you anywhere.
4. Ignoring Home Calls at work or out.
Why cut the call in front of your colleagues? If it s your ceo we understand.
Why not show that your wife is important too. We wives understand. It would be better if you husbands understand us too. We know you don’t want to look like husband who obeys wife material, but do respect when we show genuine interest in where you are going and will be late home.
Please do avoid cutting the call and messaging us. The signals can’t be that bad.
We know when you actually pick up the call in front of others that you are drunk and feel home sick. So please don’t drink and drive,
Dear Husband, Pick up, avoid argument based on this.
Be smart.
Grow up for heaven sake.
Silver Bullet 